Do you take the upper hand in love? Your choice: Muffins with tangy aroma You want to take the upper hand in love, maybe you think you're hiding well, or you don't realize your strength. You will ask the lovers to keep in touch with you any time, come back after work, and go out with you on holidays. If the lovers can't do it, you will accuse them of not loving you. These all shows that you want to control your lover's attitude, but what the feeling of your lover is rarely considered. If you really love each other, give him/her the right of space, and the tighter it is, the harder to catch the love.